THIS is why it’s so hard to make a baby sleep.

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In this article, we’ll look into why parents find it hard to make a baby sleep. When an infant monkey is about to fall, it wakes up immediately and tries to grab on to something. A fall from a tall tree-top would be fatal. 

Falling from a tree is fatal for baby monkeys.
In a land far far away, an infant monkey falls off a tree while singing Tom Petty’s cult song on it’s way down.

This life-saving involuntary response that keeps them from falling off treetops is called Moro reflex. 

What’s this got to do with your baby? Well, Everything. 

The Moro reflex is why it’s so hard to transfer your sleeping baby to the crib.  

Moro reflex and it’s role in baby sleep

While our babies don’t sleep on treetops anymore, they still think they do. When you transfer your baby from your arms to the crib, she feels like she’s about to fall. That ‘fallin’ feeling triggers the reflex, waking them up immediately.

Baby wakes up crying when placed in the crib.
In nurseries on this side of the world, an infant of our species exhibits startlingly similar behavior.

Soothing your baby to sleep is half the battle. The other half is transferring the baby to the crib or bassinet when they have fallen asleep on your lap while feeding!

And this time your fight is against gravity.

When you lift the baby from your lap and lower her into the crib, your baby perceives a change in acceleration. This change might end up waking the baby!

Ever wondered why your baby is so sensitive to gravity? Like so many other early movements, this isn’t under your cutie’s control either. It’s an automatic response triggered due to feeling of falling. 

Moro Reflex is this involuntary protective motor response against sudden change of body balance or sudden stimulation. The reflex makes sense considering our evolutionary roots as primates.

The infant feels like she’s falling. She also extends her arms to try to grab on to safety, similar to an infant monkey falling from a tall treetop. 

Moro reflex is one of the important reflexes and it’s absence after birth or presence beyond 6 months is attributed to neuro-developmental abnormalities. Your baby’s doctor will check for this reflex immediately after birth and during follow-up visits. 

Reflex and its significance

The reflex is automatic. It’s in response to a stimulus that bypasses conscious thought.

Knee jerk reflexes, like all reflexes, bypass conscious thought.
It’s perfectly normal. You ‘don’t even need to think about it’.

Reflexes are involuntary stimulus-response behaviors of the human nervous system. They do not route to the brain and hence the reaction is almost instantaneous. 

Evolutionary biologists consider reflexes to be built-in mechanisms. These sustain life, allow humans to react to threats and sometimes also respond without thinking. 

For example, there’s the rooting reflex. Stroke a baby’s cheek and the head turns to that side, the mouth opens and the baby attempts to suck your finger. This reflex is important because it facilitates feeding.

So now you get why your baby instantaneously throws her hands out and wakes up when you lower her in the crib. 

Identifying Moro reflex :

You would have seen the doctor pull the infant’s arms while examining and letting go of the arms causing the sensation of falling. This sudden change in balance causes the reflex and not the distance of the drop.

Moro reflex wakes up a sleeping baby
Moro reflex in a baby: “Quick, Grab on to something.”

The complete Moro reflex involves the following

  1. Quick opening of both the arms and extension of the forearms
  2. Full opening of the hands
  3. Finally, a smooth and slow return of the hands toward the center of the body. It’s also sometimes accompanied by curling of the fingers. 

Difference between Startle reflex and Moro reflex

The startle reflex is similar to the Moro reflex with a few differences. The hands don’t open or extend fully in the startle reflex. A sudden noise or movement may also evoke the reflex.

How long does Moro reflex exist ?

Moro reflex can be seen as early as 25 weeks after conception. It’s usually present by 30 weeks after conception.

The reflex is present in full-term infants. It begins to disappear around 12 weeks and disappears completely by six months.

Significance of Moro reflex :

Because your baby’s nervous system is maturing, babies exhibit reflexive behaviors that are different from the older children and adults.

These infant reflexes are building blocks for voluntary motor behaviors that develop with experience and maturity of the brain.

Moro reflex is present in full term babies at birth.
Reflexes, although vestigial, indicate progress of a baby’s nervous system and motor skills development.

Thus reflexes indicate neurological development. They also change as the nervous system matures. 

Asymmetric Moro

Injuries during birthing, brain malformation and muscle weakness can sometimes cause absence or early disappearance of the Moro reflex.

Asymmetrical Moro causes inhibition of the reflex on the affected side. This can be due to a local injury during birth. It can also be caused by damage to the peripheral nerve, cervical cord, or a fracture of the collarbone.

Prolonged retention of the reflex, beyond 6 to 9 months,  can delay motor development. You should consult a pediatrician in this case. 

Triggers of Moro Reflex :

If your baby has the reflex, it’s a great sign. It shows that their neural development in on track.

However, there isn’t a way to prevent the reflex from occurring. Parents still struggle with how to make a baby sleep, as it may wake your baby up. 

Changes in sensory information trigger Moro reflex
Babies are sensitive to changes.

Any sudden changes in sensory information trigger the reflex. Here are some common triggers of the reflex.

1) Sudden Loud noise: that accidental creaking sound of the wooden floor just after you place your baby in the crib, for example. 

2) A sudden touch.

3) An abrupt change in light intensity, especially in the blue wavelength.

4) A sudden change in balance – such as a drop in altitude (when being placed in a crib, for example).

5) A quick change in the orientation of the baby’s body.

These may not seem like much to you as an adult. These are all significant changes to your baby though. That’s because your baby’s senses are developing and highly sensitive.

How to reduce startling and soothe a baby?

Here are some things you can do to reduce startling your baby.

“Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?” Dumbledore might well have been talking about the Moro reflex.
  • Try drawing your baby’s outstretched arms and legs closer to their bodies. Then hold them in place till they calm down.
  • When you are placing the baby in the crib, lower them very slowly. Avoid making any sudden or jerky motions while they are in your arms. Remember, the reflex is invoked by the suddenness of the movement and not the distance of the drop.
  • Sway the baby gently while you lower the baby into the crib. The swaying motion can absorb any small jerks that could happen while you are transferring.  This is a neat little trick that can help in keeping the baby asleep while you are transferring the baby into the crib.
  • Hold the baby in front of you ‘Kangaroo’ style. In this position, apart from a sense of security, your baby can smell you, hear you and feel your warmth.
  • Always place the baby closer to your body with their arms held close to the center of their body. Alternatively, cross their arms and place them on their stomach against your body. This stabilizes your baby even while you walk.
  • Use a swaddle. It restricts the baby’s movements and helps draw their extended limbs back. Swaddling also simulates the womb environment which can help soothe babies.
  • Avoid sudden switching on the lights in a dark room. Have a dim yellow light turned on if you need to. 

A crib that can identify the Moro reflex and act in time.

Parents who are great at dealing with Moro reflex suggest these tips and tricks. 

  1. Act as soon as your baby is startled. 
  2. Soothe in ways that mimic the comfort of the womb immediately.
  3. Try and prevent any sudden change in balance.

Baby products today are not effective at dealing with things that can wake your baby up like the Moro reflex. 

How could they be

None of them respond as soon as your baby wakes up or falls asleep. 

So we built a smart and responsive crib with a baby monitor that can identify the startle reflex and the Moro reflex. It also responds as soon as your baby wakes up and before they cry. 

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